I read:

just one more thing, sorry for bothering, but in the end Im actually going to be streaming midi ,

ok great, finally I think I have sort of a clue what you want to do, so your options are:

netsend - netreceive but you'll have to develop your own mini protocol defining what is what.

OSC - just stick an OSC header and receiver to to the beginning of your midi message send it, parse it at the other end route it to the instrument you want et voila

I just thought Id try getting it working with the osc~

still don't get it

I give up,

HTH

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