On Tue, 2007-10-16 at 23:22 -0700, Alicia Byer wrote:
Hi everybody,
Maybe I have no valid opinion because I just lurk on this list, but I don't appreciate being called "girl" either, I'm in my mid-twenties also. And as far as the thread making anybody's skin crawl, I agree with Darsh. The kind of terms and attitudes being thrown around about gang-bangs and gross sex make me not want to join in any discussions.
i think, the best thing you could do about it is to just tell immediately, if you encounter something, that troubles you. please do not just ignore it. things can only be changed, if they are labeled/specifed/named. i can understand, that you would rather stay a way from such a thread, but by reacting to bad behaviour, the consciousness of the community about such issues will grow. and i am pretty sure, that the majority of the list would agree with you. once this kind of sense is established, i think noone would like to use words like 'gang bang' in his/her mails anymore.
roman
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