You can use a virtual midi chanel (like midi joke for example) and send (or receive) midi control messages which value increases from 1 to 64 or 1 to 128 evey 1/32 or 1/64 of the beat measure.
I´ve used ableton live as a master and pd receiving [ctrlin x] (x for the control message that you know would not interfeer with your hardware setup). Then using he output of [ctrlin x] (that are increasing cyclic numbers) to whatever time porcess youre using.
i hope this helps
daniel
in my very brief experience,
i used pd as master
other softwares are good slaves
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